Men dating older women with children
I know a lot of women who prefer dating an older man.
Again, if he’s been in at least one long-term relationship, the subject of communication more than likely came up, so hopefully, he’s learned how to express himself in constructive ways that will make him a good partner.If you’ve already had kids in your past relationship or don’t want any in the future, dating an older man is a good path for you, because it’s less likely that he’s interested in having (more) kids. While it depends on the person, you may find that an older man prefers his routines and may not be as keen to go out.He may even have grown children, which may be easier to deal with if you get serious and end up living together or married (you’re not the wicked stepmother to small children). But these are a few things to be aware of if you consider dating an older man. But you’ve both got to be able to compromise in order to make a relationship work. If it’s important to you to have an active social life, dating an older man may not be for you. You likely want a serious relationship too, but you know you can’t rush it. Speeding into becoming an established couple never works.That take-charge attitude and the desire to take care of his woman is plenty appealing.Younger guys tend to be jealous at the drop of a hat. But how nice is it to be with a man who knows that, from time to time, another man will admire his lady…and not freak out about it? He’s assured of what he has (including you) and isn’t threatened by another man.At least then you know immediately whether you want to pursue something with him or not, based on whether your goals are aligned.
Chalk it up to older men having more life experience: they tend to be more confident.
It subtly communicates to you that he can take care of you, and that life with him would be fun!
While most of the above benefits of dating an older man fall under the “he’s just more mature” category, it’s worth pointing out additional perks of dating a mature man. He’s likely been in at least one long-term relationship, so he knows how to give to his partner and compromise when necessary.
Dating an older man can have some pretty great benefits.
There are also, however, some drawbacks to be aware of.
These are all status indicators, and they’re part of the attraction factor.