Chubby men dating
As much as I loved living large in LA it finally came to and end and I’m now back in Oz and single as hell.As soon as the wheels hit the tarmac an invisibility cloak descended over me and I was once again back to being undateable.
They will enjoy food as much as you do (eating alone is unexciting), they will even try your meal and they will have space for dessert in their stomach! They are very tender and affectionate One of the main characteristics of fatty women is that the care a lot and they are very loving –something that pretty and skinny girls forget because they are focused on themselves.For me this was going to a big girl nightclub (yes they exist) but by far the most interesting and effective way to meet single and eligible men was randomly ‘in the wild’. There’s zero chance of a random bloke on the street walking over, striking up a conversation and asking me on a date.In fairness, I don’t think this happens to ‘regular’ size people either but the point is still valid.They are the most honest girls on Earth, she will never pretend to be something else and will be with you forever.They are not afraid of eating Going on a date with a skinny date may be cheaper (green salad is not that expensive, right?I had more dates in a month in the US than I would in a decade in Australia. As a fat girl I never had dates while living in Australia – but as soon as I moved to Los Angeles everything changed. Guys literally chased me out of bars just to speak to me (one of those encounters even turned into a three year relationship.)I was single, ready to flamingle and life in Hollywood was amazing and everything you’d imagine.
My plus size blog Big Curvy Love was kicking along, I was working in podcasting, rocking fabulous fashion and for once in my life finally felt like a legit part of the deep end of the dating pool.
Being a ‘big girl’ in the USA isn’t a deal breaker by any means – it’s a descriptor, not an insult.
Some men like blondes, some like tall women, some are attracted to boobs, butts, brains, athletic types, and some like big girls, fat chicks, or plus size women. I kept wondering why American guys are so different to Aussie blokes when it comes to dating fat chicks and why in one country I’m kryptonite and the other I’m candy.
Beverly Hills’ rolled up next to me in the The Beverly Centre parking lot, ‘The Mamas Boy’ flashed me his gold grill at a fashion show, and ‘The Plumber’ literally knocked on my door to fix the toilet.
That’s just a few.“Surely these guys only date you because they think you’re desperate and will sleep with anyone.” I hear some of you say. In Australia I’m always the butt of the joke – but in LA I was just a chick with a fabulous big butt (it took me decades to be able to acknowledge that).
I knew this would happen before I booked my ticket but it’s just something I accepted as part of coming home.